我朋友是杀人狂 My Friend Dahmer(2017)
简介：
- 本片讲述20世纪全美最臭名昭著的连环杀人犯之一，杰弗瑞·达莫年轻时候的故事。他不仅凶残地杀害了17人，还食人、渎尸，被称为“密尔沃基怪物”。这部新作改编自达莫高中少有的朋友德夫·巴克德弗的图像小说，由马克·迈尔斯执导，记录青年达莫逐渐变得行为怪异，最终走向不可挽回的境地的故事。
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- I just watched the movie My Friend Dahmer, which is based on the book My Friend Dahmer by Derf Backderf, his high school classmate and friend. To be honest, I feel bad for this guy.
For Jeffrey Dahmer, murdering was the means to an end, not the end itself. He didn't necessarily enjoy killing. What he wanted was quenching his thirst in love and finding his ideal type of lover — a tall and slender male, unconscious, dead and being with him forever.
The realization of being homosexual already devastated young Jeff, back in the 1960s, when the society was very unforgiving to the LGBTQ.
Even more so when it occurred to him that he not only fantasized male sexual partners, but also fantasized unconscious and dead males. Obviously, he knew such fantasies were abnormal and sick, from the very beginning. He lashed out his shame and frustration by beating the trees. As he grew older, his sexual fantasies intensified, just like every other teen. What made him different was his love for unconscious males’ bodies — necrophilic fantasies.
He hated such necrophilic fantasies. He wanted to get them out of his mind. But as we all know, you can't really control what is popping up in your mind.
He resorted to alcohol, hoping to seek momentary peace. Alcohol fucked up his brain, academic performance, human relationships and physical health, but for Jeff it wasn't a bad price to pay in exchange for eliminating the sickening necrophilic fantasies.
Later, people he had been close to, and people he was supposed to be close to, left him one by one. His mother, his father, his brother and his high school friends. He was all alone in the house. He hated being left alone, despite all the social awkwardness. One crucial reason was that his abysmal sexual fantasies might consume him and eat him alive.
Soon, those sickening necrophilic fantasies started to take the better of him. Even if he could manage to resist them, he couldn't, after a certain point. Not anymore.
Meanwhile, his parents were going through an ugly divorce, trapped in those proceedings. The teachers turned a blind eye on him. When he was hitting the trees, coming back with his roadkill preys, walking in the hallways clearly drunk and high, behaving in a bizarre way, showing no interest in schoolwork, and endlessly consuming alcohol, no counselor was there to help him, no adult even spoke to him about it.
That's how he came to do what he did. His deeds demonstrated abominable cruelty. He had put 17 families in lifelong miseries.
He was outspoken and straightforward in each interview and interrogation — how and why he killed each of his victim, dismembered the bodies and dissolved the parts. He said he had real friendship in high school. Derf, as his high school friend, also mentioned that high school had to be Jeff's happiest years in his life. He showed his remorse in court. He decided to be cremated after death, no tombstone, no grave, no funeral. He said he simply wanted to be “wiped out.”
Was he absolutely irredeemable? I doubt. Had any adults intervened, he might not turn into the serial killer and cannibal; the victims’ lives might be spared. But his life was also a tragedy. His brain was wired in a way incompatible with the existing society. Even if adults had intervened, I highly doubt if he would ever possibly live a normal and happy life. His fate was decided from the moment his sexual fantasies emerged.
While we are appalled by what Dahmer had done decades ago, there may be closeted pedophiles and necrophiles lurking among us. They may deserve hatred, but they deserve help even more. There should be a way they can open up without fear and shame, and let the professionals help them survive. 破裂的家庭、自闭的性格、成长的痛、被压抑的性，这所有的一切都需要一个突破口来宣泄。这部电影独到之处在于他的角度和立意，它不是去讲述一个杀人狂大开杀戒的故事，而是从小处着眼带领观众去观察一个少年如何一步步的走向这个自我毁灭的过程，并试图探讨其社会根源。这是一个普通人的视角，对Dahmer的诠释与刻画，也充满了人性关怀。这是一个痛苦与纠结的过程，理智让他多次放弃行动，但被欲望唆使的冲动愈渐强烈，最终使他走上了不归之路，电影也到此戛然而止。整部影片节奏明快流畅，男主角的衬衣好美，眼花缭乱，可以来一场复古的时装秀。
你们谁看片看到任何杀人了吗？你们是梦呓了吗？整片除了装在瓶子里的动物尸体和捡拾动物尸体，还有任何奇怪的吗？完全是一部不知所云的垃圾片！全部噱头都在片名上了！白白浪费将近两个小时看一部垃圾！
你们谁看片看到任何杀人了吗？你们是梦呓了吗？整片除了装在瓶子里的动物尸体和捡拾动物尸体，还有任何奇怪的吗？完全是一部不知所云的垃圾片！全部噱头都在片名上了！白白浪费将近两个小时看一部垃圾！
原型的dahmer这个人无疑是邪恶的，他自己在各种采访中明确表示自己知道自己做的是不对的，但依旧这样。在这部电影里面，他的高中生活包含了家庭生活，这让人惊觉还有这么惨的人生？吵闹的家庭生活，抑郁症的母亲，学校里面被欺凌，自己是gay还不会被接受。无论如何，每个人都有各种不幸，以自己的兴趣夺走他人的生命，作出非常严重的伤害是很多人都下不去手的。所以他非常evil，就是邪恶。
影片结尾被杀掉的第一个受害者其实和dahmer是同龄人。在看过的一段报道里面，这个受害者hicks的家人在他失踪后疯狂找他直到dahmer认罪才知道真相。这个人其实也是个直男，他在要离开的时候被dahmer“强行”留了下来。在dahmer杀掉他之后dahmer的父亲曾回到房子里去看他，说他在空无一人的房子里游荡，眼神空洞成天酗酒。杀人以及如此血腥的场面是会对人有很大的刺激，在后面采访是dahmer说到这个第一次时说到他把hicks敲昏就说不下去了，直接带过。dahmer的这个第一次和很多变态杀手的第一次一样都是没有很好规划过的。这个人是在他长时间情绪累积之后的一个发泄口，但这个发泄口把他带入了罪恶的深渊。dahmer最后是在监狱的健身房里被另一个囚犯拿着跟他杀掉hicks相同的杠铃砸死的。这种凑巧性真的让人唏嘘。
估计dahmer从来都没有真的爱过哪一个受害者，他只是短暂的被这些人的外表吸引，然后就不加掩饰自己控制狂的本质。他不会真的表达感情，只会偏执。其实dahmer有很多选择，但他有些神经质的性格一直把事情都往最坏的方向引入。他不会善良也不会呵护，只能破坏。dahmer这一生就是“如果所有事情都往最坏的方向发展会怎么样”。
dahmer最后没有反抗，估计是已经明白这辈子一点意义都没有于是放弃抗争了。对他来说真的是最好的选择。